In a few weeks' time, newspaper and magazine writers everywhere will be
trumpeting New Year’s resolutions and the plentiful steps you can take
to make them.
Unfortunately and without fail,
these Lifestyle Police leave out the most important step to a successful
self-improvement program: the correct "start." To launch a
successful "New You" — be it by losing weight, gaining
muscle mass, joining a gym or improving in a sport — you need to do it
gradually and patiently.
Far too often, when Jan. 1 rolls
around, people jump on the self-help bandwagon and make radical changes
to their lifestyle in deference to self-improvement, only to shock
themselves into a regimen that they can neither stick to nor enjoy.
Inevitably, they drift back to their old ways and habits, regaining the
few pounds they lost initially and letting the new gym membership
expire.
So how do you make a New Year’s
resolution seem fresh and inspirational a few months later?
By starting it now!
This is absolutely the best time
of year to get going on your list of commitments, and here’s why.
1. You have a few weeks to
'ease' into it before Jan. 1
To notice any improvements —
weight loss, conditioning, or weight training — you need at least six
weeks to see any signs of significant change. If you start your
resolution Jan. 1, that puts you at Valentine’s Day for the first
signs of success (assuming all goes as planned and you are getting the
results you anticipate). Wouldn’t you rather start noticing
improvements by the start of the New Year instead of a month and a half
into it? You’d already be ahead of the game, or at least hitting your
stride, while everyone else was just starting to talk about making a
change.
2. A resolution started now is
not as pressured as one begun Jan. 1
With the peer pressure of office
co-workers and training partners making sudden commitments and egging
you on to do the same, keeping a New Year’s Resolution come Jan. 1 is
not only difficult, but can be intimidating and scary.
By getting a head start, you can
take it easy and afford to slip up and miss a few workouts, or have an
extra dessert. If you fall off your resolution “wagon” in the early
stages (the toughest part of any program is the beginning), you are not
doing it in the spotlight — and there is no perceived “failure,”
public or personal. In fact, you can even rationalize it as “not
counting” because you’re not officially at Jan. 1 yet!
By taking a relaxed approach to
your resolution, and even allowing yourself the occasional slip-up, you
will acclimate yourself to your new lifestyle in stages, avoiding
“Resolution Culture Shock” — which can send people right back to
the habits from where they started.
3. Rome was not built in a day
If your resolution involves
completing your first triathlon, or learning how to swim, it will take
more than you anticipate to achieve your goals. Take all the time you
can get, and that means NOW. Plain and simple, just begin your
commitments — sign up for those swim lessons you want, buy those
running shoes and break them in just in time for Jan. 1, or join the gym
(before everyone else does in six weeks and it’s too crowded to find
free machines you like).
Also, by pacing yourself, you
will avoid injury and not overdo it. Your goal is to be running 6 miles
a day, three times a week? Start running a mile today and increase your
distance by an additional mile each week. You will be at your goal in
January and you can already begin planning for that marathon that seemed
impossible last summer!
4. You have time to work out
the kinks
Often, a resolution is started
with plenty of enthusiasm and goal-setting, only to be met with harsh
reality. The one-hour daily workout you planned on doing has suddenly
been challenged by the kids’ soccer-practice carpool. The
early-morning trips to the gym have been replaced with a new office
project that requires you to be on a conference call at 7 a.m. By
starting a program now, on the eve of the busiest time of the year
(holidays, followed by taxes), you can gauge what your worst schedule
might be like and plan for unexpected monkey wrenches.
Guaranteed, the holidays will
pull you in many different directions, but you can test your resolution
mettle and see how you react to a threat to your schedule. Maybe
you’ll decide your commitments are unrealistic and you need to scale
back your daily workout goals to only five times a week. Perhaps instead
of an hour of exercise each day, your schedule would better accommodate
two hours of training every other day. By Jan. 1 you can have a plan in
place and a reserve of alternative ideas to achieve your goals.
5. With momentum, you can set
more than just one resolution
Suppose your goal was to lose
10kg's next year. You start a diet now with a moderate exercise schedule
and find that come Jan. 1 you have lost half the weight already. You
feel renewed, healthy, and energetic. Why stop at losing the weight? If
you continue on your path you will have achieved your goal of shedding
10kg's by February. Perhaps for the remainder of the year you want to
set an athletic goal of completing a 5K swim, or competing in a
half-Ironman, or attempting a marathon. Whatever you choose to do, you
can be sure that a substantial — though keep in mind, gradual —
lifestyle change will keep those kg's lost off your frame for good.
This may be the most important
part of your resolution: the longevity of your commitment. By setting
incremental goals in your overall plan, you can make gradual
self-improvements that result in better daily habits that will lengthen
and strengthen your life.
With results like that, why would
anyone want to wait until Jan. 1 to begin?